Okay, now that that's all been covered, here are the best 15 anal sex positions to try when you're ready. 'There’s no shame in taking it back out and coming out of the whole situation until you’re a little bit more comfortable,” Encarnacion says. Remember: Lube is your absolute best friend (do NOT pass go without it) and never switch from butt to vag (because bacteria, people!).īut most importantly, don't forget to check in with yourself and your body during penetration. Start with the rim of the butthole before going all the way in with a penis, strap-on, or dildo. Play around with fingers first working your way up from small to big. “Go slow and go small,” says Joanna Encarnacion, a sex and relationship coach. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.īut if it's your first time, there’s a few things you want to keep in mind. Another major perk? Some women even experience full-on anal orgasms. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and can be really, truly intimate (especially if it's a first for both of you). 'I've come across plenty of women who love anal play,' says Gigi Engle, sex coach and sexologist (she's legit a sexpert for the Womanizer sex toy brand). Like other kinds of sex, oral sex can feel super pleasurable a Canadian study found that. And by that, I mean GREAT news, because women can actually enjoy butt play just as much as men do. Just because oral sex doesnt lead to pregnancy doesnt mean its not sex. Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo.
